that petty little things don't really mean much 10 or 20 years later. Also that it costs me nothing to be kind and funny or to give a compliment to someone else.
I don't think there is just one. There are many on my list so maybe that tells me I am pretty lucky. High on the list would be Courtney who is a pastor at my church. She showed me that I can have faith and still say an occasional cuss word and to definitely mess up regularly and if I sincerely ask forgiveness, I get to try again. She helped me grow my faith which has made my life so much more...
To marry my husband who is truly a great guy. I am so fortunate that with him I am a better woman that I would be otherwise. Also, having kids. They are the best AND hardest thing I have ever done.
We will probably live in a house that is not in a great school district but is cool or live on a sail boat. It will be tiny because I want to spend my time traveling, not taking care of our place.
so far, the best getaway has been on a sailboat in Puerto Rico with my husband and the only other people were the captain and chef. It was truly spectacular. I also like to just lie on the beach and listen to the waves and feel the warm sand and sun on my skin. Then, we make a sandcastle.
Be careful what you say you will never do... that can come back and bite you later. Plus, remember that you only get this day once and you will have forever to do the unending chores of life.